Getting Back Into The Dating Scene As A Cougar


It's not easy getting back into the dating scene when you're in your 40's and 50's and are just getting over a bad breakup, divorce, or the loss of a partner. You might feel shy, self-conscious, or even insecure. Luckily there are plenty of great older online dating sites that specialize in helping you to get back on the horse.

If you are a woman in her 40's or 50's and are looking for love, you may want to consider dating a younger man. As an older woman that still has plenty of physical beauty, there are plenty of younger men that will be interested in dating you. You have the maturity, experience, and financial security while the younger man has the fun-loving attitude, lean physique, and energy that you appreciate. It can be a fun and empowering pursuit to embrace your status as a cougar!

If you are a younger guy interested in dating an older and more experienced woman, you can search for "cougars near me" to find that Mrs Robinson / Stifler's Mom of your dreams. 

Older dating and cougar dating sites are convenient, practical, and get real results. What makes them even better is that there are plenty of online dating sites that are cheap or completely free of charge! If the dating website is free or low in cost, then there is no risk and it's all upside! Here's how to get started:

Get After It

First you want to find the right site for your age and other needs. There are plenty of free older dating websites out there so you should do your due diligence to find the one right for your age and preferences. A couple great options are Single And Mature and My Cougar Dates

Make Sure Your Profile Is The Cat's Meow

Once you find the right dating site it's time to sign up! Make sure to complete your dating profile including answering all questions you feel comfortable answering, answering questions, and filling out all fields honestly. Filling out all the field shows others looking at your dating profile that you are invested in the process and serious about finding someone. Put some thought into your answers. Be honest about who you are and who you're looking for! 

Upload a current high resolution photo and several other photos of you in casual and more formal settings so your potential dates can visualize themselves with you in a variety of settings. You can certainly use a flattering picture (maybe one or two flexing if you  must), but also make sure the pictures are diverse and accurate. 

Cougar On The Prowl

Sitting around waiting for Mr or Mrs Right to message you isn't usually the best way to go. You need to be proactive and check out dating profiles, start conversations, and getting some dates scheduled in your calendar. Message that cute guy or gal, you have nothing to lose and everything to gain! You could even set up dates with multiple people if you want to live on the wild side.

Cat Scratch Fever


Have fun with your hot date! Hang out, share experiences, travel, workout, get intimate, or whatever scratches your itch. Enjoy life together with your new mate!

Just because you are a little older doesn't mean that you should give up on love and lust. Finding the right partner, including a younger man, is just a few clicks away with the right dating website like Single And Mature or My Cougar Dates. 


I hope you enjoyed this article about how to get back into the dating scene as a cougar after a divorce or loss of a partner.

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